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29 May
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Russian women and of courst sweet girls from Novosibirsk, nonetheless, carry on doing so. No doubt, great number of girls and girls have tried to marry to a foreigner in the time of the “iron curtain”. However when it has been smashed, the number of girls, willing to tie a knot with an outlander has augmented. Merely, of itself, falling of the curtain, didn’t improve the patterns of existence in Russia. So in the beginning of 1990’s the “marriage emigration” has been carried on by the economical reasons.
They made it commonly in the American direction: emigration law of the United States, with all its severity, is way loyal to persons, coming for a permanent residence, than the European one. For the previous 12 years, according to the information of the United States Department of Justice, 75000 of big Russian cities as Sumy Minsk Ekaterinburg Moscow ladies have migrated there by the fiancee visas. In compliance with expert’s calculations, considerable amount of women migrated by other kinds of visas, but eventually with the same aim.
Previously, American guys experienced tendency to marry colored women, the tendency of the previous decade for colored women, however, vanished as Russian ladies were observed at the beauty competitions. Current will of Americans to marry Russian women is caused not only by their amazing beauty, but as well their nature, the main feature of which is creating a strong marriage. Russian women in their turn, started to regard their beauty as the subject of trade, which may aid them to receive secure future with a reliable man from western countries.
At present, with the increase of the life condition in Russia this tendency decreased. The motives which were forcing Russian ladies to go have modified. Nowadays those of the girls who are going abroad to tie a knot with a foreigner are searching for stability. This occurs because of the considerable shift of family perception by Russian males. They no longer want stable families, more often they prefer to live in so to say de facto marriage, when their relationship is not formally formalized. In this way they try to avoid duties. The single difficulty which remained common is the ability to recognize cultural specifics of each other.
Another considerable issue that concerns those ladies who are eager to wed a foreigner is surely women trafficking. Referring to even the most famous marriage agency doesn’t give full assurance that a woman won’t get in the hands of bad people in another country. Particularly this problem is sharp, considering the fact that the average lady, willing to weda foreigner is about 19, 5 years, in other words – uneducated and unable to defend herself in the foreign country. Such youthful girls don’t know their rights and this becomes the problem, when they are scared to complain if anything is going wrong. Surely there exist centers, principle aim of which is to help such women with adjustment to the unusual surroundings, to let them know regarding their rights and opportunities, but often women don’t have either opportunity to go to such organizations or merely don’t have any notion of them. Surely – some girls are escaping the financial hardships, which they are having in Russia and travel to America in the capacity of animators or babysitters, but, again, nobody may offer them assurance that they will be 100% safe and won’t get in the arms of pimps.
The next danger is connected to fiances. Among the Americans, who want to wed Russian women, are many divorced males in the age about 40 years -these are people who didn’t manage to grow to be finally house holders. In the last years, American and Russian newspapers keep on publishing harrowing stories regarding Russian women (as well as the Ukrainian ladies and other residents of republics of former Soviet Union), who, softly saying, have not been that happy in such marriages. Somebody is whipped by his spouse, someone is refused of seeing her child, and somebody is even murdered, and the corpse is buried in the forest.
The agencies as a rule don’t notify customers who wish to wed a foreigner regarding the bad background of men – because it is not profitable. In Washington State, for instance, recently has been accepted the law, under which the marriage agencies are forced to inform the potential fiancees in their mother language that they possess a right to ask an authorized document about the fact of convictions and preceding wedlock with the outlanders from their men particularly, for the reason of the criminal cases, committed against the fiancees – emigrants, which happen more often.